change is inevitable.

change comes in all facets and happens all the time. as seconds past things get more or things get less; winds blow from east to west or north to south; clouds get thick or clouds get thin; situations get better or situations get worse; feelings grow or feelings wither.

we acknowledge that change takes place. it would be good if we could control the change. but it would be frustrating to control change as most of the times change is beyond our control. therefore, what matters is how we cope with change.

coping with change is preparing our thinking, feeling and behaviours on the foreseeable and not-so-forseeable change. some people prepare for change by meticulous planning; some take it one day at a time.

i am not sure into which category of people i fall. preparing too much for change tires me; not preparing at all scares me.

i guess i will just accept that change does come. that way i won't be too shocked when change comes subtly or drastically. i'll cross the bridge when i get to it.